Do you know when parenting gets hard?
When you have to start being honest with yourself about the way your kids might turn out.
When you have to start being a little tougher when you know that all you want to do is hold them in your arms.
When the tears that used to be cute aren’t cute anymore.
When they struggle with right and wrong and you try so hard to guide them.
When you have to stop making the decisions for them.
When they have to learn about consequences and you can only watch.
When life starts becoming too real for them and you can’t stop it.
When you have to accept the fact that your children are not you.
When you learn that you have to deal with each child differently.
When parenting begins to feel exhausting.
That’s when parenting gets hard.
Sometimes I’m at a loss at what to do.
I feel like I fucking suck as a parent.
All I want to do is make sure my kids feel they can depend on me. That they are safe with me.
Sometimes I feel like I’m not doing enough.
One day at a time for all the parents out there.
I think we all have these days. I think we all struggle sometimes as a parent.
It’s okay to not be okay.
It’s not okay to stay that way.
When parenting gets hard, figure out how to make it better.
Parenting doesn’t come with a manual.
Make sure you’re writing a decent one.