Today, I scheduled a meeting with my kid.
I planned it ahead of time.
I told her 4pm, we can do something together.
And you know what happened?
At 4pm, maybe a few minutes late in true fashion, I played a game with her.
You know what’s super fucking sad?
I scheduled a meeting with my kid!
I treated her like a job, and oh snap I paid even more attention to her.
I had a picnic this evening as well on a blanket, in the kitchen.
All three girls and myself, just hanging out having a random ass picnic put together by my four year old.
Today, I also played babies with my 4 year old, unscheduled.
Because I realized if I treated my children the way I treat my job, I would pay more attention.
I would stop postponing these memories.
Before I know it, they are lost in their own “teenage” world when in reality, did we push them there?
Our jobs are important, and these children are our jobs!
Our lifelong job.
We are replaceable at work.
We are not replaceable in our children’s hearts.
As my children sleep, I advise you all to disconnect, and meet those deadlines.
Your child’s future depends on it!